To Let Go

To let go isn't to forget, not think about, or ignore.
It doesn't leave feelings of anger, jealousy or regret.
Letting go isn't winning and it isn't losing.
It's not about pride and it's not about how you appear,
And it's not obsessing or dwelling on the past.
Letting go isn't blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts,
And doesn't leave emptiness, hurt or sadness.
It's not giving in or giving up.
Letting go isn't about loss, and it's not defeat.

To let go is to cherish memories, but to overcome and to move on.
It is having an open mind and confidence in the future.
Letting go is accepting.
It is learning and experiencing and growing.
To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, made you grow.
It's about all that you have, all that you had and all that you will soon gain.
Letting go is courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving.
Letting go is growing up.
It is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy.
To let go is to open a door, to clear a path and to set yourself free.

*written by-Tiffany Appleton

What has Ezen got to say :

This is something dat i read from a book.
Something positive bout letting go.
i posted this last year in my friendster blog, just happen to read it n decided to post it here.
Its easy to say or write but when you're going through this its not as easy as how its said or written.
Anway this shows dat letting go is not dat bad after all,its not like we're going to die or end up suffering from depression for the rest of our life.
It is just something that will happen in life.
I m sure alot of people will have to face this,the only difference is whether it happened sooner or later in life.
So Just face it n move on,n we'll be fine.
The memories can be kept n cherished.
Nothing wrong with dat...Its accepting.